VENTING.... about my DH (I mean SH).....GGRR!!!

ldw1193 wrote: The drs seem to thinks it is because I am blaming myself for Caleb not growing. I have ALWAYS been a happy person and have never felt this much saddness. It SCARES me. Have a great night and I'll give you ladies a update soon.

Lacie

Please discuss these feelings with your OBGYN. I was severely depressed when I was pregnant with my son...to the point of considering suicide..I told my Dr. and she immediately referred me to a counselor (I did not go) and prescribed me zoloft. Most people know about postpartum depression, no one ever talks about being depressed 'during' pregnancy "prenatal/antepartum depression".

If you ever seen the movie "The Hours" where Julianne Moore's character was pregnant and suicidal..that was soo me. Tell them please...it saved me and my son.

Thank you!!! My step-mom works at the drs office and she is going to talk to the dr and see if I can get in on Monday. I am feeling alot better today. My DH and I still aren't getting along great today, but I am hoping that he sleeps all day and gets so much needed rest. HE got a Christmas card for "THE HOE BAG" and I wanted to throw it in the trash... and burn it but he knew it was caming so..... I just put it on his night stand and I WILL be looking at it when he gets up and opens it. I'm not even that mad about him getting the card.... I am just cleaning house and getting ready to be around people that love me and the ones that REALLY care about me. UNLIKE HIM !!!


MERRY CHRISTMAS ,
Lacie

Dude, you have way more patience than I would! I would open that card, cut it into pieces, and leave the pieces on the nightstand. Or better yet, write "return to bitch-ass sender" on the envelope and send it back!

My ex and I had some issues with him chatting online on porn sites and then it turned into solo visits to strip clubs. When he started taking condoms to the clubs, I couldn't just look the other way anymore. Surprisingly, that was only the last of many things that led to us breaking up. But these boys sometimes live in fantasy worlds, and sometimes they're harmless, and sometimes they are indications of bigger problems. It sounds to me like he's kind of panicking about how his life is about to change with the baby coming, so he's thinking about how simple and easy things used to be before all this responsibility. I still think he is going too far by not cutting off contact, especially since he knows how much it bothers you, but hopefully he'll settle back down when your baby comes and he's forced to step up and be a father.

I'm so sorry you're going through this, especially since it's supposed to be a happy loving time of year. But I bet he'll come around. And when he does, the ho bag will magically disappear from his life again. And seriously...we're happy to send emails and make phone calls to her if you want. Oh, and what's her myspace page? Can we add comments to it?

Lacie,
I am glad you are feeling better today. I have never understood why certain women have to behave the way they do. It sounds to me that this other girl is jealous of you. She wants to have the kind of happiness that you have with your hubby. She doesn't have it in her current relationship. I do wonder if her husband knows that she is calling and texting your husband all the time.

Tomorrow sounds like a much needed day for you. Enjoy being around all of your love ones. As hard as I know it is don't let that witch ruin your day with your family.

Dee

I LOVE you girls!!!!

We had a great talk when he got up. He had to work tonight and then will be off till Monday. ANYHOW... He opened the card and it was the dumbest HIGH SCHOOL thing I have EVER seen. She wrote something about have a great hoilday and don't get to wasted... Well you little HOE bag... he doesn't drink THAT much... I SWEAR the 6 pack that his sister got when she came down 3 weeks ago is still in there with 3 beers in it and we have some crown in the freezer and I don't remember when that was put in there?!!. WHY is the FUCK would he spend his hoildays wasted!?! ANYHOW... she had a family picture in there and I wanted to THROW up. That poor family is UGLY!!! I feel really sorry for that little girl they have. http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=4141691 is her myspace page address... "Paul's Wonderful Wife" That is SO funny that it makes me want to THROW up!!
Oh yeah, I said in a smart ass tone " SO honey you want me to put her card up there with the rest of them" I thought he was going to hit me (NOT REALLY) but if looks could kill I would have been a dead wife. AND I couldn't stop laughing. LOL!!!
My DH is a great daddy to our boys and would never leave to be with that ugly thing. I know that I am not the prettiest thing that walked the earth but... I KNOW I look better then her.
Oh yeah, I don't think Paul knows that she talks to my DH. Oh yeah on your staus thing the part about "Happy he is talking again" I think that is talking about my DH. Because he had stopped talking to her and she kept texting him. WELL he told me tonight that he did hear from her last night... and if she starts texting again then he would like for the block to go back on his phone. Well I better to get ready to go to my dads for a Christmas thing.

Lacie

I see your problem...she likes ICP....ewwwwww worst group of people to ever try to make music.
Either way you have NOTHING to worry about at all. I know her type and those girls look 4 dramma 2 feel important.

Just looked at her myspace page....eeeewwww....and that song that started playing was horrible.

I am glad you were able to talk with your husband. Hopefully things will calm down now and thats good he agreed to putting the block back on her number.


Dee

Wait, so the ho bag's not married to that guy AND her job is as a carhop for Sonic? She has a lot of other random shit on that page too...it's like an acid trip threw up!

I'm glad your D/SH is coming around and that he's agreeing to block her number. I hope you guys have a good weekend and that this all blows over!

I can't even begin to tell you how excited I was to snoop on her MySpace page, its like I now have an enemy that I can cyber-stalk...and her mood was FLIRTY...I wanted to reach through the screen and smack that FLIRTY little face of hers. And yes, carhop at Sonic...

LOL!!! Yeah she is a WEIRD person. She has so many different things and apps on her page that is DUMB!! I have tons of things on my page too but mine are cute and have a point!!! I am just better then her!!! I guess I didn't realize that they weren't married?!
Matt just called me to see how my dads christmas thing went and I ask "so have you heard from the hoe bag tonight" and he didn't even say.. honey that's not nice, or that's not her name or anything, just said " NOPE, THANK GOD"
Matt's sister HATES Sarah.... her and I both have reported her page?!! SIL wants to drive to Springfield and beat the hell out of her. SIL wants me to give her the address off the card and go pay her a vist!!! OF COURSE.... MIL thinks she is a nice girl... and doesn't see why SIL hates her so bad. My MIL is the DEVIL and would do ANYTHING to see Matt leave me. NOT GOING TO HAPPEN BITCH .... Sorry I get mad when I think about how fucked in the head my MIL is. She has been a hoe bag all my of DHs life and will always be JUST that. I think it kills her to see that her kids are HAPPY AND married to the same people they have kids with. There is NOTHING wrong with having a couple kids with different dads.... but she STILL isn't sure who my SILs dad is..... and my SIL is 21 years old. ANYHOW... MIL and SARAH are hoe bags and I can't stand either one of them. When we are around MIL... I get as far up my DH ass as I can get and stay there so when she is mean to me... he can say something. LOL!!

Lacie

Well I just wanted to update you GREAT ladies!!!! My DH and I went shopping today and had so much fun. My mom kept our boys and it was just the two of us. He hasn't heard from the hoe bag in a couple days and she sent a IM to one of her friends (that happens to be a friend of mine) and she was bitching and crying to her about how I won't let them be friends... well she was told "HE doesn't like talking to you that is why he stopped talking to you until you wouldn't stop till he said something" " And he is married and has 2 boys with one on the way" "THEY are VERY happy" so now she is mad at this friend for "taking MY side" LOL!!!
We are having christmas tomorrow morning with our boys... and I can't wait. They think santa is coming tonight.... so DH and I are going to be up late wrapping gifts together. I haven't even started on them AND we got more today for them. I am SO ready for all this craziness to be over with. I LOVE Christmas... but I HATE having to run everywhere and making everyone else happy. This is the first and ONLY year we will be moving OUR Christmas back. It worked out great because we were able to see what everyone else got them AND we got some GREAT deals at Toy R us today but... I don't want my boys to have to wait any longer for santa.

Lacie

I am off to wrap some gifts while my DH watchs a movie and spends some alone time with the boys. MUCH needed alone time since he worked nights for 2 weeks and they REALLY missed him.

Glad to hear things are better now!!!!
I checked out her myspace, cause I'm so nosey haha
and he'd be a fool to even think about hooking up with that!!!

anyway Merry late Christmas!